For the last few days I've been seriously contemplating friendship and what it means to be a good friend, supportive friend. Is it someone you can tell anything to? Is it someone you are always happy with? Is it someone you can sit with and not say anything to and they understand what you are feeling?
This is my philosophy on friendship.
Friendship doesn't just happen on it's own, you have to work towards building the types of friendships that you want. So, whatever you put into it, you get out of it. Yes, some friendships begin on accident, but they all stay because of your commitment level.
True friendships are not always perfect, they have their ups and their downs...some skyrocketing highs, and sometimes unbearable lows, but true friends make it through.
Two of my most wonderful friendships have seen their fair share of lows, and I'm just happy to say that things are looking up. I don't know what I would do without them, and getting through such hard times with them has shown me that nothing beats a best friend.
Today, a trusted advisor told me that when you find the one person you can tell EVERYTHING to and they'll still love you, keep them around because you'll only find one. Well I found two, and I'm sure not letting them go!!!! They can try to get rid of me but I'll just keep coming back. Mwahahaha.
So think about the people closest to you, and think of the people you can't live without...remember those people, and work towards keeping those friendships alive. Nothing is more important than a best friend.
And that's my new philosophy!
Ps. I love my biggie Jess and my little Deanna. You guys are amazing and I am better because of both of you :)
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